HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU.

If you don't want to grow white hairs before you get married, here
are the things you need to do to attract your man and get
married on time:
1. SMILE: Men love smiling women. No, not the one that begins
and ends with the mouth, the one that starts from the eyes.
Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship and
unlock doors! Learn to smile at people baby, women who lack
men's attention rarely smile. They are always cold and look as if
they are carrying the problem of the whole world on their head!
Some of these ladies even frown a lot! Look, everybody has a
problem, no man wants to add another person's problem to his
own. Be a genuinely happy person and show it by smiling at
people. Men will find you irresistible and seek to know you more.
2. BE HUMBLE: Humble women don't lack suitors! One way to
stay single for a long long time is to be proud and cocky! Proud
women are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at people,
segregate yourself from the company of common people, talk
down on anybody and you are practically rude because of your
class, money, car, social status, job, etc, you will stay single
forever! Be humble! Learn to accommodate all class for people.
Learn to serve others. Learn to use "sir" when talking to men.
Some men may tell you it doesn't matter but secretly, they love
it. Men love it when women address them with respect. Learn to
be respectful and submissive to authorities.
3. BE CONFIDENT: Confident women are attractive any day any
time. Knowing who you are, pursuing your dreams, vision, passion
and goals makes you a confident person worth investing in. When
you know your reason for being here on earth is far more than
getting married, punch out few kids and stay locked in the kitchen
forever, you approach life with a positive mind set, you are
energetic and confident in who you are, you have a good, sound
self esteem and men are irresistibly drawn to you.
4. BE FRIENDLY: Ladies who keep to themselves hoping some
Prince Charming will find them are not ready for marriage. Be
friendly! Being friendly is different from being desperate and
cheap. Go out. Attend positive programmes, conferences,
seminars, workshops, symposiums and serve in your local
church. Enjoy meeting people and getting to know them purely
for friendship not for marriage. A man can smell it a million
mikes away if you are desperate and chasing him. Just be
yourself. If you are just being friendly and he thinks you are
cheap, that's his headache! Don't let that stop you from being
friendly to people. Smile a lot, meet people and be a happy
person to have around.
5. BE GENEROUS: Stingy women who can't part with anything
don't know what marriage is about. Be generous to people. Be
generous with what you have. Be generous with your smile, your
love, your talent, your service, your money, your prayers, whatever
you've got that can bless lives. Generous women are men
attractors, they never lack admirers.
6. BE FORGIVING: Forgive all your EX, forgive the guy who
abused you or rape you, forgive all who disappointed you in the
past. Practice advance forgiveness, forgive people before they
hurt you, more people will offend you. If you find it difficult
forgiving people, you will grow bitter and people will move away
from you especially men. Release the man who promised you
marriage but disappointed you and married someone else.
Actually, you were not meant to be. If you had married him, you
may have been divorced or dead! Thank God for it and move on.
If you don't release that man you may never find any man to
marry! Men will unconsciously move away from you and you will
be singe and miserable for the rest of your life!
7. BE INTELLIGENT: Men like intelligent women. Know when, how
and where to talk. Don't be a dummy upstairs. Know what is
going on around you. You shouldn't be a naive, empty-brained,
beauty queen. Your face may get you into the marriage, your
brain will determine how long you last. A man likes a woman who
can give intelligent answers to questions and contribute
meaningfully to discussions. If he asks you, "Why is Nigeria in the
mess we are in?" And you scratched your head, looked at the
ceiling, bite your finger and say, "I don't know" Your brain needs
revival!
8. BE NEAT: Dirty ladies are not good marriage candidates. Some
ladies look great outside but if you see where they step out, you
will remember world war 2! Very dirty, disorganized and rough to
say the least! No sane man wants to marry a dirty woman. Learn
to be neat. Take good care of your underwear, learn to shave.
Keep off the body and mouth odour. Deal with the eczema and
pimples, do your hair on time or comb it well. Always appear
neat and presentable.
9. LEARN HOW TO DRESS WELL: Wear something that fits you,
not what is in vogue. Get a good tailor who can sew clothes that
fits your body shape. Learn about your body shape and wear
something that flatters your figure. Straight ladies need clothes
that flatters the waist line. There are some clothes good on
hourglass not good on pear, apple shapes will look great in shirts
and suits, pears will look great in gowns etc. I'm not saying you
can't wear different kinds of clothes, just wear the ones that fit
you. They make you sweet to look at and simply irresistible!
10. LOVE YOURSELF: You can't love others if you don't love
yourself. Celebrate yourself. Accept yourself the way you are, you
are simply the best. Don't envy anybody. Not everyone's got what
you've got, celebrate your uniqueness. Men love ladies who love
themselves. Don't envy someone else's looks, love what you
have. Don't wish you have a fuller chest, heavy bum, sexy nose or
longer hair. The man God created for you needs someone exactly
like you and will fall in love with you just the way you are so chill
and appreciate God.
11. BE GODLY: Godly women carry God and carry gold. Men find
you irresistible.
12. BUILD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DAD AND
SIBLINGS: It tells a man how you will treat him in marriage.
13. BE FEMININE: Some women have masculine nature: the
"Tomboys"! And there are men who love tomboys, honestly! Not
with standing, learn how to sit like a lady and talk like a lady! It's
"un woman" to sit with your laps thrown apart, you belch loudly
after gulping a bottle of malt and barge in and out of a house like
a soldier! Even soldiers are regal in their steps! Stop giving men
the impression that they want to marry a man! Be ladylike! Learn
it if it is not natural with you.
14: BE HARDWORKING: No man wants to marry a lazy, indolent,
passive, idle, backward, sleeping, purposeless and visionless
woman! You will attract your kind! If you want a hardworking man,
be hardworking, up and doing, agile, proactive, versatile, business
minded, creative and industrious. Learn how to make money and
have an active bank account!
15: READ BOOKS: Ladies who read instead of jumping from
house to house gossiping about nothing in particular don't lack
good suitors. Read godly books that will bless your life and make
you a testimony to others. My husband was attracted to me
because I was a voracious reader. John Mason brought us
together.
16: GODLY ASSOCIATIONS: Some women will never marry until
they change their friends. If you want to marry fast, you will need
to let go of your unserious friends who enjoy clubbing and get
close to married women with beautiful marriages whom you can
learn from!
These and more are the things you need to do to get a godly
suitor and marry gloriously. You still need to pray though, some
delay are spiritual in nature. No matter what you do, you may
never get a man to marry if you don't break some yokes through
earth shaking prayers and violent application of the word.
You should practice all these if you want to get married on time
and also get in the word, pray against delay and deal with every
stronghold and spiritual problems in your life. I see you getting
married soon in Jesus name. Do not forget to send me an
invitation. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017