Sex doesn't buy Love (Singles)

A man can be physically attracted to you, be intimate with you,
and have zero interest in a long term relationship with you.
This is often hard for women to understand because we most
often associate sex with love, while men easily disconnect the
two. Because of these differences it is easy to blur the lines
between love and lust since we tend to only view things from our
own perspective. In order to create a love relationship, you need
to attract a guy on both the physical and emotional level.
So how exactly do you relate to a man emotionally?
One way is to inspire him. Do your homework to find out what
your man's dreams and goals are, and then be a supportive
influence in helping him achieve success in these areas. If he
seems stressed about something, ask him how you can help. If
he is discouraged, remind him how much you adore him in spite
of the present circumstances. If he is tired, give him the gift of
one of his favorite activities. Set up a time for him to go play golf
if that's what he likes. If he likes to jog, buy him a new pair of
shoes or download some new songs to his iPod. Little things like
this keep a man going when things get difficult. He'll see you as
a partner and appreciate the little ways you make his life better
and more enjoyable. A guy falls in love because of how you make
him feel. Showing him that you are aware of his needs creates in
him a strong desire to reciprocate those feelings with you.
When he creates resistance in your relationship, give him some
space. Match your tone to his. If he wants to be alone or spend
time with his friends, give him that opportunity without making
him feel guilty. This is a time for you to experience growth in your
own life as well. Catch up with your friends, start a new project
around the house, or work on something that you have been
putting off. When a man is ready to reconnect, which usually
doesn't take long, he'll see that you have been busy, and he'll
even wonder what he's been missing with you while he's been in
his cave. Remember that it is natural for a man to withdraw from
time to time. He may be overwhelmed; he may even be sorting
out his feelings for you. The key is not to force him as this will
threaten his freedom. A guy is more likely to fall in love with a
woman who understands his need to have some space.